How to Pat a Cat
It’s probably the most confusing of all cat quirks. You’re lavishing them with pats when, all of a sudden, they bite, scratch, and run away. Well, here’s the answer on why it happens and how you can avoid it…
Hint: It’s not you…it’s them
When you’re running a positive PR campaign for your cat, nothing sets you back more than a sudden bite or scratch during what was meant to be a positive bonding session. And what makes it even harder is the fact it always feels like they’re into the pats right up until the point where they’re not.
Why Does My Cat Scratch Me?
It’s really not your fault. Cats are different to dogs. They’re not hardwired for unlimited affection, unlike their canine ‘pat sponge’ counterparts. In fact, even in larger cats like lions and tigers, those loving acts like licking and head-butting are usually only for a matter of moments, not extended sit-in sessions.
That rejection of your endless indulgent patting comes from a phenomenon called Feline Over-Stimulation Aggression.
What is Feline Over-Stimulation Aggression?
Basically, when your cat swats you after a patting session, they’ve had their fill of stimulation through patting and they’re checking out. Sure, they could use a little more tact than biting or scratching – but that’s often the only way they know to say, ‘stop please’.
How to Stop my Cat from Scratching Me?
Step 1: Mix it Up
Don’t just give them all-over body pats. This will wind a cat up Instead, focus on ten seconds of chin scratches, behind the ear scratches, full-body pats, and then give them break. They’ll often nudge you when they want more of a particular pat.
Step 2: Manage that Reactivity
Have you ever had to manage a reactive dog? Well, this is the cat equivalent. But just like in dogs, you can ease that irritability and likelihood of lashing out. The L-theaninein my Calm + Collectedcat treats is proven to keep cats calm without sedating them.
Importantly, you should remember, it’s not you, it’s just them. They still want affection and attention, just their way. A cat’s way. That will earn you the ultimate respect…and avoid the round of a-claws!
Dr Chris
Brown
Dr Chris Brown
Dr Chris Brown is an Australian Vet, television presenter and author. Best known for his television series Bondi Vet, he is also the founder of Drool – a company which champions quality ingredients and hand-picked supplements for healthy pet treats